Show Notes
Ellie and Cole went from both being non-monogamous to just Ellie playing with others. But that doesn’t mean Cole doesn’t benefit! Ellie shares videos and pictures of her encounters and brings the sexual energy into their relationship when she gets home. We dive into how this (some might say hotwifing) arrangement works, the conversations that made it possible, and their journey from playing together to settling into a mono-poly dynamic.
Listen to Ellie's podcast 'Kink with Alex + Ellie
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To My Stag, My Hubby full audio: https://soundgasm.net/u/ParcaeNona/To-my-Stag-my-Hubby
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