"Children Don't Spell Love L-O-V-E. They Spell It T-I-M-E." | Missing Millennials Part 2 | The Shepherd's Bench EP.012
The Shepherd's BenchShow Notes
"Children don't spell love L-O-V-E. They spell love T-I-M-E." The conversation was too hot to end. In Part II of Missing Millennials, Kofi Dartey and Randolph Adjei go deeper into why an entire generation went quiet, and what it cost them.
In this episode: Four kinds of missing: absent, inactive, unequipped, or in position without preparation "We're not here to say our fathers failed", the humility clause Immigration, night shifts, and children raised by the streets Prayer warrior on Monday, deacon on Sunday, stranger at home Why millennials blame the church for stealing their parents The millennial fathers overcompensating for what they never had Children spell love T-I-M-E "Don't get education, get a phone", influence without formation Being successful and managing success are two different things Will you still be doing this at 60? The longevity question nobody asks A prayer for Gen Z
We love millennials. We love Gen Z. But this one was about the ones we can't find. ____________________ The Shepherd's Bench is hosted by Kofi Dartey & Randolph Adjei and brought to you by KAC Studios. Subscribe for new episodes every 2 weeks. Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @shepherdsbench
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