Show Notes
You're more accomplished than you used to be. The doubt didn't go away. Three a.m. replays. Did I say the right thing. Why did I do that. Should have handled that differently. The voice doesn't care how much you've achieved.
In this episode, Dr. Aziz unpacks why self-doubt persists no matter how successful you become. The physicians twenty years in still secretly questioning themselves at the end of every workday. The CEOs and founders who look polished and confident on the outside but live with a constant headwind of doubt on the inside.
This episode covers:
Why more achievement doesn't fix self-doubt (and the strategy almost everyone tries first)
Why doubt is the default, the path of least resistance for the human nervous system
The strange way doubt gives you certainty and comfort
A 20-year-old client convinced he'd already missed his chance, and what that conversation reveals
The reframe that breaks doubt's hold: the opposite of doubt isn't certainty
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