What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms

Fresh Take: Michael McLeod on ADHD and Executive Function

What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms

Show Notes

Kids (and adults) with ADHD don't actually have a deficit of attention. Today, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is more properly understood as a deficit of executive function— and as this week's guest ⁠Michael McLeod⁠, founder of GrowNOW ADHD and author of ⁠THE EXECUTIVE FUNCTION PLAYBOOK⁠, explains, executive function means a whole lot more than a messy backpack.

To help kids with ADHD succeed, Michael argues, parents need to help children strengthen the internal skills that lead to lifelong independence. In this interview, drawing from his decades of experience working with families whose kids are growing up with ADHD, Michael explains his four-pillar framework for developing executive functioning skills: self-awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, and self-evaluation.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How self-awareness and "time blindness" can affect daily life when you have ADHD

Why novel experiences are crucial opportunities for kids with ADHD

How exposure to screens intensifies ADHD symptoms

Why negative attention feels great to the ADHD brain

How to support ADHD kids without lowering expectations for their capability

Here's where you can find Michael:

www. grownowadhd.com

@grownowADHD on IG, FB, and YouTube

Buy THE EXECUTIVE FUNCTION PLAYBOOK: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781394309153

Buy the accompanying workbook: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781394364589

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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