Show Notes
In this episode of the SoberFitGirl Podcast, we’re talking about the gap between fantasy and reality — especially during our drinking days.
The fantasy: drinking made us more fun, more confident, more social, helped us relax, helped us fit in, and was part of the life we wanted. The reality: the hangovers, broken promises, anxiety, unhealthy habits, and the ways alcohol impacted our relationship with ourselves.
We’re diving into how fantasy showed up in our fitness journeys, relationships, and the way we viewed ourselves — chasing an image of who we thought we needed to be while ignoring what was actually happening.
Now in sobriety, we’re learning to see things clearly. The reality of a sober life looks different: stronger relationships, showing up for ourselves, consistency in fitness, confidence that comes from within, and building a life we don’t need to escape from.
This episode is a reminder that sometimes the thing we’re holding onto isn’t the reality — it’s the fantasy of what we hoped it would become
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