Show Notes
Roshi and Frankie have been navigating a long-distance polyamorous relationship for over three years, where they both have other partners. Today, we talk about:
How to balance multiple relationships without losing a shared vision
Their experience building a long distance partnership
Finding security even when your partner has a nesting partner
Why non-monogamy is also an inner journey that can help you gain clarity on who you are, your needs and integrate different parts of yourself
Resources mentioned: Bonus content from this episode on Patreon (on Roshi's search for a nesting partner and Frankie's experience asking for what's important to her): https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-ep-62-when-139590497 Ep.6 Facing Insecurities Head On with Frankie: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep6
Where is Frankie Now? (Patreon): https://www.patreon.com/posts/120772218/
Ep. 55 Aryn & Josh From Couples Therapy: https://www.polycurious.com/podcast/ep55
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