Show Notes
In this episode of The Regulated Mother, we name the invisible losses that come with parenting a hypersensitive, high-needs child—loss of identity, dreams, freedom, health, and more. If you’ve ever felt like your life no longer looks or feels like your own, this conversation will help you understand why—and remind you that you’re not alone.
If you're carrying the grief nobody names, start with my free Meaning guide — and finding your way back to yourself: https://www.illuminateu.ca/meaning-guide-podcast
🖊️ You can also read the full blog on my website: https://www.illuminateu.ca/blog/the-loss-no-one-talks-about-in-parenting-a-high-needs-child Afshan’s instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/afshantafler Afshan’s YouTube page: https://www.youtube.com/@afshantafler Free Ebook and Video series on the 7 Steps to Regulated & Resilient Parenting with your hypersensitive, high needs child: https://www.illuminateu.ca/regulated-and-resilient-parenting Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-regulated-mother/id1817810402
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