Show Notes
In this episode, Chris is joined by Canadian therapist and Certified DST Therapist Natalie Cournoyea. Together they explore the concept of treatment-induced trauma (Room 22 of the 22 Rooms model) and discuss how well-intentioned therapy, group work, and recovery frameworks can sometimes create additional harm for betrayed partners.
Drawing on their experience working with both betrayed partners and those who have engaged in deceptive sexuality, Chris and Natalie discuss common blind spots within the treatment field, including codependency frameworks, premature couples work, disclosure issues, and the risks of professional collusion with deceptive narratives. They also explore how a trauma-informed, DST-based approach can help couples and individuals move towards greater safety, understanding, and healing.
Find out more about Natalie’s work: Website: Centre for Life Solutions www.centreforlifesolutions.com
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Content note: This episode contains a particularly raw and emotionally intense exploration of deceptive sexuality and its traumatic impact. For betrayed partners in particular, some of the imagery, sounds, and descriptions may evoke strong feelings or trauma responses. Please consider whether this is the right time for you to listen, and feel free to pause or step away if needed.