Love, Money & Red Flags: Protecting Your Finances in Relationships with Peta-Kay
Females Thriving Over ThirtyShow Notes
We've been taught to chase love — but nobody teaches us how to protect ourselves inside it.
In this episode, Soraya and Jasmine are joined by financial advisor and coach Peta-Kay, known as Your Finance PT, for an honest, no-filter conversation about what really happens when love and money collide.
Whether you're newly dating, in a long-term relationship, or rebuilding after a breakup — this episode is full of practical advice and real talk you won't hear anywhere else.
✨ What You’ll Learn The money red flags to look out for when dating (hint: it's not just about job titles)
Why financial independence is the most important form of self-love
How to protect your assets if you own property before getting married
The truth about the 50/50 split — and why it often fails women
What to do if you take time out of work to raise children
Should you take out credit in your partner's name? (Spoiler: think twice)
How to handle a partner with a gambling addiction or hidden debt
Practical steps to start building your own financial safety net today
Budgeting as a couple: date nights, savings pots, and money conversations that actually work
Peta-Kay also shares her personal experience managing finances in a 7-year marriage, and the one thing every woman should have — no matter how much you trust your partner.
Connect with Peta-Kay: 🌐 www.pearlsandperils.com 📲 Instagram & TikTok: @yourfinancept
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