Show Notes
You’re texting every day. Hanging out one-on-one. Sharing your deepest thoughts. Praying together. Maybe even imagining a future together. But you’ve never actually defined the relationship.
So… are you really “just friends”?
In this episode, we’re taking on one of the biggest blind spots in Christian dating: the almost-relationship. The situationship. The undefined “friendship” that’s functioning like dating without the clarity, commitment, or courage.
We unpack why so many Christians end up here, what it costs, and how to know if you’ve been lying to yourself about what this relationship really is.
We’ll talk about: The seven biggest signs you’re actually in a situationship
Why men and women end up settling for ambiguity
Whether daily texting is already dating
How emotional intimacy can outpace commitment
Why “I’m waiting on God” can sometimes be a cover for fear
The difference between being friendly and being flirty
How to love someone without leading them on
Whether it’s okay to date someone else if you haven’t defined the relationship
How to know when it’s time to have the DTR conversation
Four practical ways to get out of a situationship with integrity
This isn’t a conversation about putting more rules around dating. It’s about choosing clarity over confusion, courage over comfort, and honesty over emotional limbo.
If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “What are we?”… this episode is for you.
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