From Harm to Healing

Episode 33 - Conversations with Rhian Kivits - The Recovery Compass

From Harm to Healing

Show Notes

In this episode, Chris is joined by UK-based sex and relationship therapist and Certified DST Therapist Rhian Kivits. Together they explore the often-overlooked experiences of betrayed partners navigating the traumatic impact of deceptive sexuality.

Drawing on her background in relationship therapy, narcissistic abuse work, and the Deceptive Sexuality Trauma (DST) model, Rhian explores why traditional approaches to couples therapy can sometimes leave betrayed partners feeling further disempowered, and why validation, psychoeducation, and reclaiming one's voice are such important parts of the healing process. She also introduces her new Recovery Compass programme, which helps women navigating the pain of betrayal find greater clarity, stability, and self-connection through a DST-informed approach.

For more information about the Recovery Compass programme, please visit:

https://go.betrayalprescription.com/recoverycompass

You can also find out more about Rhian and her work at:

https://rhiankivits.co.uk/

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