Show Notes
Today, we are diving deep into the complexities of trauma, connection, and the healing journey. If you’ve ever felt like your therapy progress is backsliding or that you’re becoming more overwhelmed as you open old wounds, this episode is for you.
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00:45 – The Therapy Balance: Why a therapist shouldn't work harder than the patient to maintain a healthy therapeutic space.
03:55 – Therapist Self-Disclosure: When it is ethical for a therapist to share personal information to benefit the patient.
05:30 – Why Healing Feels Worse: Understanding why trauma processing can lead to a temporary increase in symptoms.
11:01 – Building Coping Skills: How to use coping tools and impulse logs to manage the discomfort of change.
15:24 – Therapist Self-Care: Kati shares how she separates her personal and professional life to avoid burnout.
22:05 – Trauma and Disconnection: Why survivors may feel alienated and how finding relatability can break emotional numbness.
32:13 – Empathic Boundaries: How to stop absorbing other people's emotions while still offering support.
39:54 – Parents and Boundaries: What to do when parents ignore boundaries and why a boundary is about your own actions.
42:07 – Love vs. Limerence: The difference between slow-built intimacy and intense, involuntary obsession.
46:50 – Neurodivergent Marriage: Advice for couples with complex PTSD on discussing triggers and expectations before marriageWhether you are struggling with complex PTSD, navigating a new marriage while neurodivergent, or trying to set boundaries with difficult parents, we’re covering it all today.
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